Family mediation helps separating couples negotiate arrangements for children and finances with an independent mediator, instead of asking a judge to decide. It is voluntary, confidential in most respects, and often faster and less adversarial than contested hearings.
What mediation can cover
Mediation commonly covers:
- Child arrangements — where children live and how they spend time with each parent
- Financial disclosure and settlement options after divorce or dissolution
- Practical issues such as schooling, holidays and communication
It cannot force an outcome. The mediator facilitates discussion; you remain responsible for any agreement.
Typical process
- Each person usually attends a MIAM first so suitability can be assessed.
- Joint sessions (or shuttle mediation) follow if both agree to continue.
- Proposals are recorded in a memorandum of understanding or open financial statement where relevant.
- Solicitors can turn a financial agreement into a consent order for the court to seal.
When mediation may not be suitable
Mediation is often inappropriate where there is domestic abuse, a significant power imbalance, urgency requiring protective orders, or one party refuses to engage in good faith. A mediator will screen for this at the MIAM.
When to get advice
If you are unsure whether mediation or court is the better next step, Law Expert can assess suitability, prepare you for sessions, and help document any agreement properly.