Choosing a school is always a big decision to make but when parents are separated the decision-making process can become even more complicated.
Making the decision to separate or divorce is one of the biggest decisions that a parent will make. It represents the first step in developing a new co-parenting relationship between you and your ex and, particularly at the outset (or when circumstances change), it can be difficult to know which aspects of co-parenting you will be able to agree on.
Selecting a school for your child is a big decision to make for them, and where you and your ex share parental responsibility, decisions about education or childcare should be taken jointly.
Cases involving disputes over schooling can be challenging and education can be a divisive topic. Not everyone agrees on what is best for a child’s development and learning. Some prefer schools with a strict academic policy and top exam results whilst others prefer a more rounded education which focuses on a child’s strengths. There is no one right answer and every child will have different needs.
Disputes over education or schooling can arise in many ways. Even if you and your ex agree which school or nursery your child attends, it is sensible to get written agreement from everyone who has parental responsibility for them.